Gold Star families have given everything.

Believe With Me is a national nonprofit serving the parents, spouses, children, and siblings left behind when a loved one dies in military service. We serve families of those Killed In Action, Killed In Training, lost to PTSD Suicide, Service Connected Illness, and Active Duty Accidents.

Our mission is to give hope and help to America's Gold Star families. 

Our programs are never based on financial need. We serve Gold Star families because it is an honor and a joy to give back to those who have given up everything for our freedom.

Every Christmas, Believe With Me sends sacks full of gifts from each child's personal wish list to Gold Star children across the country. The children of fallen soldiers deserve to know America remembers them.

Gold Star parents who have lost a child in military service deserve to own a piece of the nation their son or daughter died defending. This program provides land and housing support to qualifying Gold Star families at no cost.

Valentine's Day is one of the hardest days of the year for military widows and Gold Star sweethearts. Grateful Americans sponsor a sweet gift so that no Gold Star significant other spends that day forgotten.

Gold Star mothers carry a grief no one should bear alone. Each year on Mother's Day, we find a special way to honor every Gold Star mother registered with Believe With Me.

Inspiring the Next Generation to Live a Life Worthy of the Sacrifice

Believe With Me was born from our students' heart to serve. Our mission has always been to inspire the next generation to live a life worthy of the sacrifices our Gold Star Families continue to make on our behalf. Whether you donate, volunteer, fundraise, or lead as a Student Ambassador — this is how you honor the fallen.

Believe With Me gives volunteers of all ages a tangible, meaningful way to honor Gold Star families — from packing Christmas gifts to serving at events — and show the next generation that Americans do not forget.

Some of the most powerful fundraisers we've ever seen were led by students. Host a LemonAID stand, a Freedom Formal or your own event in your hometown. 

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Are you a Gold Star Family?

If your family has lost a loved one in military service — whether Killed In Action, Killed In Training, by PTSD Suicide, Service Connected Illness, or an Active Duty Accident — you are a Gold Star family, and Believe With Me would be honored to serve you. Register with our Gold Star Community to receive program support, connect with other Gold Star families, and be remembered throughout the year.

Join the Grateful Nation of Americans

Behind every Gold Star family is a nation that should never forget their sacrifice. A mission this big takes all kinds of patriots — individual donors, businesses, volunteers, students, and families.

Your donation to Believe With Me directly supports Gold Star children, Gold Star spouses, and Gold Star parents across America. Whether you give $17.76 a month or thousands, you are how we honor the fallen.

Frequently Asked Questions

We have been serving families over a decade, and have all your answers here!

Who Qualifies as a Gold Star Family?
A Gold Star family is any immediate family member — parent, spouse, child, or sibling — of a U.S. military service member who died while serving. This includes Killed In Action, Killed In Training, PTSD Suicide, Service Connected Illness, and Active Duty Accidents. Believe With Me serves all of these families.
How do I register as a Gold Star family with Believe With Me?
Visit our Gold Star Community page and create a free account. Registration takes just a few minutes and connects you to our programs, events, and nationwide community of Gold Star families.
Is my donation to Believe With Me tax-deductible?
Yes. Believe With Me is a registered 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization (EIN# 47-3192165). All donations are tax-deductible to the full extent allowed by law.
What does Believe With Me do with donations?
Donations directly fund our programs for Gold Star families — including Christmas gifts for Gold Star children, Valentine's Day gifts for Gold Star spouses, Mother's Day recognition for Gold Star mothers, and housing support through The House That Love Built.
Does Believe With Me serve families nationwide?
Yes. Believe With Me serves Gold Star families across all 50 states, thanks to our partnership with FedEx. Our Gold Star Christmas program alone ships gift boxes to Gold Star children nationwide every December.
How do I get gifts for my children under the Gold Star Christmas project?
Create an account for approval under the "Gold Star Community" tab at the top left of this website page. Our team accepts new applications and updates registrations every year beginning August 1st for the season, and your registration cutoff is August 30th. You will receive your application approval (depending on your registration completion and communication) no later than September 1. Stay connected by emailing us at [email protected] or check your spam folder for updates.